Transformation

~For you to get the full story let me bring you back to 2018~

Fall of 2017 my so-called boyfriend had moved to Michigan for work, and at that time I was working at a local Mexican restaurant. Whenever we get into petty little disputes, he would "punish" me by saying that he wasn't going to come see me, and that sucked so badly like quality time is a love language for me and you're not meeting my needs it was horrible. And I know what I did was wrong too and I started to mess around with someone much older who had a family, but he gave me the time, the attention, the little stuff that I was missing. It wasn't anything serious, it lasted a couple of months, I would say that maybe it was temptation just to see how it and also because the owner of the restaurant was very snoopy and she snitched on him to his baby momma, and my boyfriend found out too around the same time.

At that moment I didn't know but it would make sense for him to pay me with the same coin. He screwed her, don't know how many times but he did, they talked for a while afterwards.

~Recently~ 

In the past month, we were being truthful and doing a Q&A of our past and our infidelity. He claims the last time he was with someone else was 4-4.5 years ago. That ticked me off because our son is about to turn 5 end of May. Personally, it doesn't ressonate well you being untruthful to your partner while she's pregnant. While every day she is struggling hormonally, physically, she's constantly changing not knowing up from down. The fact that this person was from 2018 and you still brought her along to 2021, irks my skin.

Is it cheating? If your not really offically a couple but she's having your kid, she's growing another human being and you're galavanting.